There is an art to finding the scent that works best for you. I remember visiting parfumeries in France with their sensual atmospheres and carefully curated gardens of lavender, jasmine and the like while being educated on the science of scent. On one occasion I even created my own fragrance. The process of finding the scents and smells that work for you is an intimate experience producing a pairing that is unique to the individual that can rarely be matched. If you don't have the privilege of creating your own then, you'll have to find it.
Shopping for that signature scent can be perilous on the senses and wallet but once you find your match, it's a match for life. Since wayback, I've been allured by ALLURE. It's my BAE.